It's been months since I last wrote anything here, and mainly because I didn't have anything that would motivate me to do so. But I'm back, and I guess this isn't a very positive motivation that I'm having right now. Recently, I said that I'm leaving for the US, and that's not the only good news. I got back together with this amazing girl that I have known for years now. You probably know her from my earlier entries, but we're all good now. For some reason, she was depressed or sad about something, and that got me thinking. You know me, with my brilliant, over-thinking noggin. So I ended up blaming myself for it, thinking that it's my fault that she's feeling bad. I tried talking to her, I gave it my all. I really did.
But I guess you're not really meant to fix everything, or make her smile every single time. But that also means you shouldn't stop trying. If you really want someone to stay or love you, you don'd give up hope on the first sign of trouble or hardship. You struggle, even if you know it's a losing battle. You flail your arms to reach out to her, you squirm, you crawl, you claw your way towards her, because in the end, it's how much we did for someone that mattered. Sure, you may end up not getting the girl, but you can say to yourself that you have nothing to be ashamed of, because you gave your all. You put your heart on your sleeve, you wear your love for her with pride.
So guys, never be afraid to love someone, no matter what. Have that "Won't-have-it-any-other-way" attitude towards it. You can be lenient on your beau, but never be lenient when it comes to your relationship. Fight for it, don't let the fear of rejection or loss hold you back. Fight for your love.
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